Coitus Interruptus

There is this profound beauty in sex. And when I say sex, I mean the act, coitus interruptus. I mean the act of being truly visceral and beautifully primitive with another human being. Bare with me, because in the definition of coitus interruptus, it's the combining of male and female genitalia and when I speak, I'm speaking about all acts of sex.

In society today, it is almost acceptable to allow yourself to give up pieces of your soul easily, just for the pure bliss of the moment. But what about truly looking at sex, and understanding the spirituality and emotional connections that go with it? Are we allowing ourselves to be honest enough, to say that when someone is touching us, they are not just physically caressing our skin but also strumming the very strings to our soul.

When you connect with someone on that level, you are allowing them to see the true, naked and honest version of you; naked not only in the literal sense, but in the figurative sense of the word; nudity of the soul. Don't fool yourself into thinking that it is just physical, because we are all human and we feel. When you have sex with someone, you are letting them in to the very essence of your human nature and animal instinct, when they touch you and a moan slips out of your lips, they are learning about the very parts of you that make you come undone. When someone stares into your eyes, or even strokes your skin, they are connecting with you on a level far beyond any physical nature, whether you want to accept it or not.

Don't over think it, you're probably thinking. But I'm going to, I'm going to because we need to realize that we are giving pieces of ourselves, snapshots of ourselves at our true nature and bits of our soul to every single person we have sex with. And you will always remember it. You will remember the moment you shared with that person, even if at the time you expected it to mean nothing, you now have a connection with that person, a string however thin and slight, that puts the two of you together. They have something of you that you will never be able to take back.

So to all of you fooling yourself into believing it is just fun, your soul is being broken off bit by bit, like a pieces of bread and it's time that you start realizing it. I don't expect you to stop, maybe it makes you feel less alone, or maybe it brings you momentary comfort. But eventually, it will be over and if done with the wrong person, you will be left alone thinking of them at night, because they are thinking of you. And how both of you now hold pieces of the others soul in your own.

Sex is a inter lacing and intertwining of spirit and soul, body and mind connecting in order to create a moment so divine, it sometimes makes grown men cry after they orgasm. It is something not to be taken lightly, you are a temple of God, your soul is where He stays and you must never forget your worth or the worth of that simple moment.

So next time, just make sure the person is worth giving a piece of your soul too.